Good for you for staying focused and calm, and taking care of you. I am new to all this, and today my H blew up at me as I asked him where he was going and he didn't want to admit that he waslooking at apartments... too many more details to mention. Biggest problem, my daughter wants to see him. I know that the thing to do is "do something different"; so don't contact him. Just what to do about explaining all this to a four year old??
