just getting started here newly separated

[BryanS]

It sucks to see someone new in so far as people don't come here because their M's are great. I'm sorry for what you're going through, it is definitely not a good time.

You've gotten good advice so far, I don't have anything really to add. For the future, it would be beneficial to give some more details about your sitch and what precipitated it. No one will tell you what to do but they will be better able to sugget things to you if they understand a little better where you're coming from. God bless.