MLCers are WAS. WAS may be MLC, but there is not DNA test yet to prove it. So we are all left wondering, WTF?
Your H seems to be at that magic time in his life for his little brain to explode. You can't help getting some gooo on you, but it sounds like you are doing a good clean up. Keep it up. The best contact with aliens is no contact. There are lots of theories about how to communicate so they know the door is open and you will be their friend. This would be right if the alien weren't spewing to family and friends.
We don't need those friends and neither do you. Let It Go.
Some LBS on these threads have posted stories of in laws having to eat crow after the MLCer woke up and admitted all their lies. Unless he does, expect MIL to believe any kind of lie that spews out of H mouth. Expect OW to promote the lies. It makes her less evil in all this. You are blessed to have sons that know right from wrong. We all hope they learn the true measure of a man by watching all this.
At the beginning of my Xw alien orbit she met with an interested male friend from work. He allegedly told her to think hard about D because "when his W went crazy and he D her, the kids stopped talking to him". Does anyone else smell MLC lies in that?
This likely alien MLCer then told my X that if she did D, he would be interested in dating. Of course he would. That is almost certainly why he was no longer M and ignored by his kids. They see life inside out as it suits them.
Don't go near the gooo.
Get all you can in court. If he wakes up one day, and the OW helped spend his last dime, you won't regret it.
Send your post man a Christmas card, not your MIL.
