Nutty,

I don't see my H at all. Last time I saw him he was driving on the road next to me, I turned away.

He still tries to see me, call me, email me. I ignore him. He knows where I live, work, play, etc.. A simple "I'm sorry" would change my lack of communication. That is common decency and respect.

Kiki,

Hang in there and thank you for your support.

Me: 45
H: 43
Married: 19 years
Dated 05 years
Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"

Kids: 16 (s)
13 (d)
2 (d)

"If god is for us, who can be against us"