I could at least guarantee my H would let pride get in the way (and his avoidance of problems) and would move further away from me.
This is what I am mostly afraid of in my sitch. That and that R with OW will continue and become a new life for my H.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!