know that my H will not do the light bulb moment. He is too proud to admit that he screwed up. I figure that if and/or when he comes home it will be a slow return
This will be totally be my situation if H returns. There will be no proclaimation, so declaration, no 'ation' at all. I fear he will just slide back into our marriage without trying to fix anything.
Just wanted to say hi to you, I just read your threads. Sorry about the pain, but glad you are here.
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And if they claim all along that they don't want you, they are done, they only want D and to move on. Why don't they file????
Because they aren't really done. They are so very confused. So lost. They don't know what they want. But, if we push them the wrong way, I could at least guarantee my H would let pride get in the way (and his avoidance of problems) and would move further away from me.
