No LIN, I am glad you shared. Anytime. Although I cannot offer any advice I can though share in your hurt.

The H's lie so well in all of this. That is one thing that I don't know how we'll get past if H ever comes back. I believed him over and over in the very beginning. He has stared me dead straight in the eyes over and over and over again saying that he is not seeing OW. Well I don't believe him. Way too many clues or evidence to say yes he is.

I also know my H and to admit to this A would be to be less than the man he has always tried to portray.

I often wonder if I worded the question differently if I might get a different answer.

Hang in there LIN you truly are in a good place now. Be strong and you will get through.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!