What is reasonable and what is not?

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We had a great weekend. Exh and I went out of town for a couple of days to a sporting event and it was so fun. It just baffles me that he acts the way he does but still has contact with ow. Hes loving, sweet, attentive and talks about our future.

I looked on his phone a few times and there was one call with her before we left on Friday. Lasted about 12 minutes. No texts or calls since. I have heard from others that her dad is pretty bad off and the prognosis is not good. I hate to sound unsympathetic, but find another friend. I am sure she calls him and cries the blues but I still find it wrong.

A question I silently pondered alot this weekend was the H's and W's that have OP on the side whether its EA or PA......how do they justify the risks they are taking? They have so much to lose....families. How do they think its worth it? It's such a no brainer for me. Nothing is more important than my family.