Really could use some encouragement today. Any help out there?

Wondering what the stats are for those really, really, manly, proud H's in MLC. The ones that claim,"you know me, when I make up my mind to something that's it". Do these H's typically come out of this MLC okay, and return to their wives/

Also, how do you know if they are coming out of the "fog"?

And if they claim all along that they don't want you, they are done, they only want D and to move on. Why don't they file???? Is it because they really don't know what they want or can it be just to complicated for them?

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!