mk, forgot to answer you about the trust issues with ow. back in june when H moved back in, begged for that second chance and such, we had a long talk. It was a good talk, really open, and I shared some stuff I was learning...shared the circle theory my therapist uses, talked to him about co-dependent relationships and how they don't satisfy in the long run, etc, etc. He got quiet, seemed to really get it, and actually said to me that he thinks she is pretty messed up and isn't sure that he can trust her.
now, that said, a lot of water is under the bridge since that talk (june 3), so maybe he feels differently. but really, I'm making this about her, and its about him...he may or may not choose her for life, but the reality is that no matter what, he just doesn't choose me.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
