I have a ton to write, but I feel too tired to write it. Suffice it to say that H is contacting LW and hiding it. She and her BF broke up...and suddenly now they're talking again.

Initially, I was upset, but I went for a walk, spent some time meditating in the park, and got refocused. I'll be okay no matter what he chooses to do. I can't stop him anyway, so why should I make myself miserable and expend my precious time and energy on what he may or may not do?

I came to the conclusion that I'm okay, no matter what. I know that to my core. I don't need H to be happy, and if he leaves or has an affair, I'll be just fine.

That's the crux of it. Now I'm going to spend my day making myself happy.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!