Heartbroken, I finally got time to read all of your posts. Wow, some pain, some hard hard pain. Your kids were older, which makes it soooo much more difficult for you. My kids just lost 2 playmates (OW's kids) and know nothing more, still innocently hug at school. My H and I and OW and her H never stop them from talking or hugging, even around us.
I know the pain of seeing OW. H's OW wouldn't ever stare me down though. The only thing she does is avoid me, or starts crying.I could have sworn I saw her crying at Open House, and I was right (her H confirmed it). I don't know what I would do if she stared me down!? I see her at least once a week, and never tell H about it. Not his business, really. They aren't in contact anymore (as far as I know), but when they were, she would tell him she saw me. I get bouts of sadness whenever just thinking about D5's school, its like its ruined for me. I only pray that will change.
Your threads give me sooo much hope. Thank you for coming to my thread and posting, it meant a lot to me. Then I could come here and read (plus another poster also told me to come see your thread too) and learn. Thanks!!! I hope for only the best for you!
