I am following a very similar line to you with regards to going very dark with my H. Like you, i am unable to be nice just cos it is a DB rule (for want of a better word)
I have had some intersteing and mixed responses from my H.
Do you not see your h at all? I find i tend to forget all of the bad stuff in the r when i don't see him for a while though. I saw him on saturday to discuss the children, it is good to do it when you want to cos you can make sure you are lookin' hot :o)
My H is tending to mirror my behaviour at the moment which is quite interesting ...
Best Wishes Nutty x
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
