The reason I am doing what I am is because I could not live with myself catering to my H when he is doing such evil. I hated it. I could not fake being nicey nice to someone like that. Even though I still love him, I don't like him. I believe in consequences, it is what I teach my children. I was not being an example by acting like his adultery was not serious.
My H never apologized or repented for destroying his family. Until he does this, he will never see or hear from me again.
And I think that is exactly the right thing to do. I am in the same boat.
Without respect there can't be a "good" relationship.
