Quote: BTW, the "scuffle" is the most “physical” H has ever been with me, and completely out of character for him. C attributed both of our “crazy” behaviour of late to the rampant emotions. Something we’ll look back on and shake our heads over. So please don’t worry that I’m in any kind of physical danger!
Glad to hear physical was not a problem.
Quote: H sat in the dark in the living room. I asked if there was anything I could do or say to help him feel better, but he said no. Not even a hug!
1. Sound like cave time via Mars/Venus 2. I sat here and put myself in your hubbys place on the couch, my LL is also QT, but as I sat there, and you had you sat down besides me and just took my hand(no words), my first reaction would be to flinch, then a little bit of trembling, then probably starting crying, just knowing you were there for me. You would have gotten the tightest hug in your life along with the most sincere apology you have ever received from me.
Man this is gut wreching stuff, just my gut feelings.