Plus, if/when our H's do come back, we have all these people we have to explain things to.

I live where I work. People notice he isn't here. I am constantly asked, and I really don't know what to say sometimes. I just say he is no longer here. Some people push for more details. It's just uncomfortable and a constant reminder that my life is upside down.

MK, your H isn't even there. That mom isn't even thinking straight. It's horrible how the kids are drawn into this mess. Like it isn't hard enough on them already.


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9