Besides a male friend at work (whose W cheated last year and they are trying to fix things), I have regretted telling the few people I told. I haven't told anyone since.
Sometimes I want to shout it from the rooftops because 1) H would squirm and 2) I might get some support, but after its out, there is no taking it back.
What morgan and mk said about her H and the mom not letting the kids play, I have often fantasized about telling other moms about OW saying "Watch your husbands, ladies".
