Hi Sue. Lunch sounded really nice, as did the rest of the afternoon. Maybe his taking you to your room (hubba hubba LOL) was his way of showing you he cares? I have heard that Five Languages of Love book is very helpful. I think you are still in the position to use the information.
About the apology and things like that, DB says not to expect that, because many many people don't get that official "I am sorry, I want the marriage to work". Hard stuff.
