I have no idea about W and the avoidance. Definately something to ponder. I wonder if she is just avoiding her own feelings about you, and trying to give you space. I think miss saffie is right, that pride gets in the way when it comes to our spouses. She isn't blind, and has noticed all your changes. Maybe she is unsure these changes will 'stick'?
About family, oooooh yes. If they knew about H cheating, they would totally back me in a divorce. Scratch that, most would, my mom would say she supports me in what I decide, but in her head would support divorce. lol I, like saffie, have now learned to avoid the friends that make me feel even more like a doormat by saying "I can't believe you haven't kicked him out and filed". Does your W know how your parents feel about her?
Hope you have a good day at work. That's where I am too. Well, I am not at your office, don't worry..
