trying....I don't usually just get up and leave. I did it one morning to get out and walk and it did put H into a scramble mode. As far as doing it at night. Yeah, he'd probably flip a lid. It's hard though with our schedules. He works 3 nights a week until 9:00 pm & 2 until 7:00 pm. H has not said anything more about the confrontation. I've been wondering if I should mention anything. I just know he's continuing to talk to OW. His phone rang yesterday while we were all home together. I wanted to say....tell that B!tch to quit calling. Then a message was left too. I know it was her. He was very, very nervous when he saw who was calling.
One thing about yesterday though.....H called from work and asked if D3 and I wanted to meet him for lunch when he finished. We did. It was nice until D3 fell & scraped her leg. It was weird afterward though. H kept talking at lunch about how he wanted to go home and get some sleep. We left at the same time & we got home at least 15-20 minutes before he did. Then he didn't park his car in the garage (of our building). D3 got really crabby & I finally was able to get her to sleep. I got my Women's Health magazines, sat out on the deck & read. About an hr. later, I came inside & sat watching football with H. H asked what D3 was doing. When I told him she was napping, he got up from the couch, grabbed my hand and took me into our room. It was nice. I had this vision that he was going to tell me that he would tell me he was sorry...blah, blah, blah.... Just a vision in my mind.
Well, D3 is bugging me to get off the computer.
I'll catch up later.
Oh, H now plans on going to CA with his brother, so I guess no trip to Chicago for the two of us....bummer.
Have a good Sunday.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
