what is the ow thinking??

[saffie]

LO,

I was in exactly the same position as you and I was pissed about it too. That's why somtimes I think that Theo should tell OM's W about the A but then I can also see that that does not perhaps benefit Theo and I don't know OM's W or have any loyalty to her, whereas I would hate to see it make things worse for Theo.

Not all people do want to know either - it is just such a personal thing. If OW's H had contacted me then OW would have certainly had me turn up at my H's Co and make sure they all knew exactly what I thought.

I know of someone in our town who when she found out her H was having an A with another W she took her kids to where the OW worked, (in a hair salon), and she went in and said in a loud voice "If you want my H you can have my kids aswell" and then she turned and walked out. I could never do that to my kids but I bet for a split second that felt great!!!

Saffie