I really don't know. Perhaps she is upset that you are not 'interested' in her. That by not giving her any attention you are saying that you don't care. I do think that sometimes pride/ worry of getting hurt, can make both parties to a relationship back off so as to avoid being rejected and then a stalemate is reached.

Does her OM ever see you? Could he be really worried about you and how you are in really good shape etc and be putting pressure on her to stay away from you?

The way she sometimes talks about you dating other women makes me think that she would almost get off on somone else wanting you and her then proving that she can get you back. It's like maybe she wants others to desire you so that you are a 'trophy'-if someone else wnats you then you musy be worth having.

I think your W has got a screw loose anyways so god only knows what's going on in her brain!!!!!

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength