Hi all, need some thoughts on W's latest. Since i have been detaching and GAL. the W has all of a sudden starting doing the same thing. She has been going out unannounced, bought new curtains for "her" bedroom, and in between is still trying to talk normal to me. I have not reacted in anyway, other than to affirm what she says, and to be nice to her. I am hoping my positive reactions are beginning to get the "wheels" turning in her head, but at the same time, am i pushing her away by her doing her own GAL. Any advice or thoughts from those with the same sitch? Thanks.