What is your take on the avoidance part by a S after everything has been pleasant for several weeks? I don't want to look into it too much, but I am curious. I have been as nice as can be, but the nicer I am, and the more I GAL and keep to my 180 the more she doesn't want to be around me.
Even if she was happy with OM and wants to start a new life, you would think that the first step for her would be to reconcile as friends (for DD's sake, and for the divorce to be civil etc). It would be in her best interest to do it that way, you would think. I have not shown her any interest in wanting to get back together, so she shoudn't be afraid of showing any feelings that could be taken the wrong way.
Maybe I need a coffee instead.............and stop thinking about it
