-- but I now realize that my W is the OW as seen from the OM's marriage's perspective. My W is hurting the OM's W. To the OM's W, my W is the OW.
I've thought about this before. It's kind of strange to think about it, isn't it? I will tell you that ow's now xh knew about the A early on. I'm pissed he didn't tell me.
