Quote: I took about an hour of it, then at 10 asked if there was anything else on. He made a half-hearted search of the guide and just left it on that dumb show.
So I went into the back room and finished a novel I'd been reading.
But then, I just got so agitated! I felt like getting on here, or journalling, but I felt constrained, like I couldn't. Like I was a kid and had my "computer privileges" taken away. (point of fact, he never said I couldn't journal, but wouldn't that equally take away from our "quality time"?)
And what kind of quality time was that anyway???
SB, insted of fuming, tell him you want quality time and turn TV off and do quality time, it is very hard at first.
When we were newly married we did not have a TV. We play cards, listen to radio, went walks, it seem natural at the time. These are skills you have to learn together, maybe make a game out of it. Each Q time one gets to pick activity and visa versa. I wish my xw would have done that, instead of fuming and cleaning anything that did not move. Dog and cat ran when she starts cleaning.
Have you consider him being on the board like Calyso?sp. Maybe show him thier thread. I was concern about the tussle you had. To close to P abuse for me.
Good Karma
Will, I would like to start thread if I could figure out how to.
