Just got back from my mums, went to visit my dad in hospital and he is doing really well. Hopefully he is out tomorrow (Mon).
Had a great weekend with DD. We got home about 1 hour ago, and W was in her room. She came down a few minutes ago to ask whether she could have DD sleep over her friends again tonight, and I said yes. So I have only seen W for 2 min this weekend, and I feel pretty good. The less I see or talk to her the better. Funny that.
I have the house to myself to watch the Rugby later tonight (Aust v Fiji), then an early start in the morning for work.
I wonder what the avoidance is all about. It is only 4pm, and W was in such a hurry to leave, like she has been whenever I am in the house. I suppose it could go two ways, either she still hates me so much that she cant be in the same house as me, or her feelings are still strong enough to make her feel uncomfortable around me. When we were arguing, and I was constantly on her back about things, she did not avoid me as much.
Since doing the 180 and not calling or txt her at all over the last several weeks, and being as nice as I can, and getting back to my normal self (the one she fell in love with, confident, happy, fit etc) she has avoided me more than before.
Go figure. Maybe she has really moved on with OM, and wants things to end alot quicker.
Who knows?
One difficult thing that I did encounter today, was when I was talking to my mum and dad at the hospital, they are 100% behind me with the divorce, and have sort of hinted if I was ever stupid enough to take my W back they would not be impressed. They have had issues since the day I met her, not only with W but with her whole family.
You would think that if we did get back together, my probelms would be over, but from my conversation with my parents, I think my drama's would be just beginning
