The current strategy is pushing her out the door and really start neglecting her and focusing on my life and goals (as per my counselor). Kind of GAL and LRT hard core.
Which is what everyone at this stage should be doing. Why do you give her/him so much POWER?
mcojh, theo, You are giving her too much power.
When she says 'blah blah why couldn't you blah blah'
you say 'because the environment i was in, with you as a 'victim' and as a 'needy person' and me as an 'enabler' with no 'self esteem' didn't allow for that. Now I've learned 'self esteem' again, and you're not my enabler and I'm not yours. I'ts a much better place to be and if you want to come along for the ride then please DO.
If you do or don't, I'm in it for the future and for the excitement. But I'm tellin ya, it's gonna be fun.....
