I think ediemarie's advice is perfection! However, you have to be comfortable. This is a difficult time. Take care of you and the kids while you adjust. Take advantage of this time and space to get that much needed rest and regroup.
(((HUGS)))
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9