Had that. I was an elder in my church for nearly 8 years. Lots of women in awe of me. I was a major "expert" and authority figure. Didn't prevent her from feeling emotionally neglected and pursuing another guy.
Hun, I think it's over between us.
The only thinkg I can do is push her out of the nest. Start talking hard finances.
And, by nature I'm super nice...sooooo...very nice. I'm sweetness incarnate.