Sara,

Had that. I was an elder in my church for nearly 8 years. Lots of women in awe of me. I was a major "expert" and authority figure. Didn't prevent her from feeling emotionally neglected and pursuing another guy.

Hun, I think it's over between us.

The only thinkg I can do is push her out of the nest. Start talking hard finances.

And, by nature I'm super nice...sooooo...very nice. I'm sweetness incarnate.

It's time I stop that.

--Theoden