P.S. I'd still like to hear opinions on the flirting stuff...notice how MAL says I don't flirt, but Cal says some of my stuff might be construed as flirting
I had this discussion once upon a time with my H. Sometimes when you're just being friendly and happy, it can come across to someone else as flirtation. So your intention may not have been to flirt but it could be interpreted by someone else as flirting. So I just used the term "flirting" to describe anything that could fall into that category - your H may consider it flirting even if you don't...?