Still Seperated and Hopeful

[Sara]

I meant that you go through your thought process and it leads always to the same conclusion. Sit down and wait. Don't take action.

[Sara]

A week or two ago you wanted to do something, and were considering all pathways. But now it seems that you have decided to not do anything.

[theoden]

Sara,

Yeah you got me pegged.

In 12-18 mos it's over. We will be able to afford a separation. I will divorce her.

I'm rather exhausted now. I'm digusted with her.

The only thing I can do differently is to expose affair.

Right now I lost my job. I need to find a new one.

I can see how I've gotten frustrated with other people's inaction. It's interesting to be the one frustrating someone whose marriage is on the mend.

--Theoden

[Sara]

I'm glad you are not insulted. I'm so sorry to hear you lost your job. That is terrible. I hope you find something that is even more to your liking than the last one. I left a message on the Theo thread for you. This is the first I've seen of that thread. Glad you have one.

[theoden]

Sara,

The theo thread was started by someone else.

I wasn't insulted, just pissed.

[Sara]

I'm sorry if I pissed you off.

[theoden]

Hey...it's life.

We're bound to piss people off.

It's easy to get impatient with others. You are safe on the other shore.

I have 5 kids. The youngest is 4. I'm more concerned for them. It makes me cautious. Who knows Sara. You succeded without divorce busting. If I recall: two confrontations and a Retrouville weekend. Great. I have a truly hurt WAW who is deep in lala land and powerfully in love with OM. ANd I'm a bitter and sad. I'm no competion for him. If she had to choose now -- it would be him.

So I'm choosing for her. She gets a well-paying job, I divorce her.

The current strategy is pushing her out the door and really start neglecting her and focusing on my life and goals (as per my counselor). Kind of GAL and LRT hard core.

Anyhow...I know you love me and mean well.

No one prepared us for this.

--Theoden

[Sara]

You will find your own way. That is how it has to be. No one can solve another person's problems for them.

[theoden]

I know Sara.

I'm just sick to my stomach today and angry.

[Sara]

I guess it's the combination of things, all the stress. Have you tried Zantac for the stomach? It works wonders for me.