You know that's what i was thinking. You said a few days ago you'd like to have us sit on your porch. If she could see you sitting on the porch with a group of women (some men could be there, but it's the women I want her to notice) who love and respect you, it could be an eye-opener for her. Saffie and I should plan a trip to do that. Or maybe you could professionally start counseling women on family issues or something, and get that image going of you surrounded by women who are in awe of you.