Yes, lwb.
And until (if) such time as they come to their senses, our spouses will not see it that way. My W chooses to see my moving forward as me merely being selfish -- her words.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.