Hi LWB! Thanks for stopping by my thread! I appreciate the well wishes...I'm thinking about what you posted to me...hmm...nice insight.
In regard to your question: As I udnerstand it, I think it depends what "phase" you are in. Are you supposed to be dark? If yes, then you are just supposed to talk about the kids and be loving polite etc. I think though him coming and going and you not letting you know is really disrespectful. If he wants to come and go as he pleases, then he can do that elsewhere. If he wants to sleep at home then he behaves as the husband he is. Are you ok with him bouncing in and out of home? If not, he needs to know that and I think you need to set the boundaries that you are comfortable with.
I've caught up on your thread - yikes. You've had a tough time lately and being sick doesnt help! But your head is the right place. Keep up the good work!
I hope you are having a happy birthday!
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Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
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