H wants D

[forward]

"How sad that he is 40 and his parents are still involved to this degree."

43, actually. And part of the problem w/our situation is H's cluelessness w/money. He tends to take it for granted. This is a big problem w/H although I admit to creating the monster some. H didn't want to have to bother himself with mundane details of money, so I handled most of it. Now he's going to be in a position where he knows very little about it and has to do D.

It's the MLC thing "Oh, *I* don't care about money--I will go live under a bridge."

I think actually he is ashamed that he has not earned much.