Most people out side of this web site probably told your wife to forget about you and move on...
We supported her decsion to try and make her marriage better, and try to win you back. You want to accuse her of "flirting?"
Quit placing your guilt on your wife... Fix your marriage, move on. I hope I never have to see either one of you on this board again because the both of you are living happily ever after. I want to see your story in success... How is success going to happen if non sense acusations are going on?