Im going to be a lil blunt incase Mr. Shinybear reads this one....
Dude what is the name here??? Oh yeah... Divorce busting.. Thats right.. Not, find an online affair and get your "groove thing on."
Ok maybe there has been some online flirting... Its not like we have been "secretly" having "ONLINE AFFAIRS." Most of us here are broken hearted, our emotions, dignity, self esteem, and our mentel state has been shot to hell. Now you want to get on her for expressing common curtosey???? GET REAL!
Think about it... SB came here to figure out how to "fix" her marriage, not find a replacement for you.
You have a good woman dude. One that anyone would be lucky to have... The thing is you have her... And you want to accuse her of F'cking up your marriage on "DIVORCEBUSTING" by looking for another man????
You are the luckiest man in the world. You have a forgiving woman, who has been through h'll and back hoping that your happy @$$ would come back to her.
Now, you both have a lot of issues to over come. Trust is a big factor for both of you... You both hurt, you both need to heal, and you both love each other... Now, try divorcebusting your @$$ off for shinybear and see what kind of loving, caring relationship you can have.
Good Luck to you both. I would love to see you guys pull through this.
My apologies for being an @$$hole...
pardon me for my foul language... I dont know what came over me.