How sad that he is 40 and his parents are still involved to this degree.
I have had several people push me towards closure...not understanding what H is going through...what we are dealing with. I don't blame them - they are thinking they are helping me. I just smile, say thank you, and continue to try and DB...for me.
I can't imagine H trying to bring OW to family dinner. No one "knows" (although they do). But I am only two months into this. Don't know when H will admit to OW to me, his family and friends. I think he knows the reaction will be bad so it will be a long time in coming..... It is different for us. D is not the norm...with our families, friends...anyone.
Why point out to him that he is doing the norm? Do you think he will listen? Or care? I don't mean this to sound harsh...I just keep trying to remember what Michele says in DR about going down cheeseless tunnels. Why bring it up if it won't do anything? And if he is not in a position now to really listen to what you are saying...why say it.
I give you a lot of credit, Breton. You have to deal with this and a small child. I can't even imagine...
