Hey, It looks like FIL is doing so much better, I have been busy doing stuff for them, and visiting them. I haven't mentioned to H that I am doing stuff for them, unless he says something, and you know what?? I am enjoying helping them out. Even BIL is seeing the difference in me. I am trying to be the fun person I used to be.
My H went to the dr. the other day, and got put on blood pressure medicine. His pressure was 210/100, which he says is my fault. I don't think so, and would not take responsibility for it. He's the one who gained 40 lbs. this past yr, while I lost 60. I think he was joking.
I think H is being slightly more affecionate with me, and definitely less critical. So, that's a positive.