Thanks MAL (rest up honey!) LL and Ellie. Your responses are making me cry for some reason. Confirmation of what I know in my heart? That this place is for SAVING marriages, not messing them up?

Ellie, thank you so much for your words of wisdom, I feel badly that I don't keep up with your sitch regularly. I didn't even know you'd changed to kml until a few days ago!

Shiny