Well, I decided to continue trying w/DB and that means I need to be friendlier. I will also try to treat him as I wish to be treated. So I was today and H took D1.5 for a walk to give mommy a break, which was good, and lingered, which surprised me a little.
That said, he may well have filed for D this morning!
One of my concerns and my holding back on DBing is that i fear that H is a power person, may like to dominate, etc.. And if that is how he really is, I do not want him back.
One of my books indicated some ways to consider whether you are dealing with an incurable power person. I tried this little test and H responded in a way that did indicate some compromise. Still whiny, but compromise.
And that made me more interested in continuing process.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
