[quote=whitelight] I said it's normal to want to see us happy, but to also feel sad b/c we're not getting back together. I asked her if that's how she felt about H and his gf, and she said yes and started to cry. I told her that it's okay to feel like that, and that if things had gone the way H and I had wanted, we would all still be together (I almost choked on that one, but it's probably true). But in any case, we are still a family, just a different one. And it's okay for her to like the gf; she doesn't have to love her.
That was amazing. You could give lessons. I hope I can pull off something even half that loving and classy when I get the courage to really talk to S14.
