I agree with Theo on this one. You have to do what feels right for you and I get the feeling for both mc and Theo, Theo's order of things is the one that they would feel most morally comfortable with. I am not saying it is right for everyone but from the way they post it seems right for them.

By the way I am Ms. Wright!!!!! I am always right - even the left half of me.LOL

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength