When to move back in together?

[the girl]

Aud,

In regards to the new sexual life you have been enjoying with your former alien/returned H, praise God!

Call me a simple girl, but I just feel fantastic when our sex life is good. It has only been good for a few short interludes. I feel much less depressed and I have a lot more compassion and patience towards him. This will be a huge future goal for me. I have realized that a good sex life is a real core issue of importance for me. I am kind of like a man in that way. It makes me feel really loved.

Well, one week and he will be moved in completely. Today he will start moving some small things. He has been looking for a new job. He has had a really positive attitude lately.

My best friend is here visiting. She has just been left by her husband of ten years. She has been posting on this forum and it has helped her some, but she is just in total shock, grief and anger. I told her that I need help with redeeming some places in my city that remind me of the OW and my H together. The OW's neighborhood, for starters. I am tired of driving past places and feeling that sinking, defeated, humiliated feeling. I want to make new, powerful memories in those places. I will let you all know what we come up with.

The week counts down...
The Girl