He had said that we really needed to improve our communication; not speaking since Wednesday seems antithetical to that desire.
I so hear you there. I don't understand how the WAW can say things and then immediately contradict themselves. Yes they're confused and yes they're just human but is it too much to ask for a little consideration. Not spousal consideration but human decency consideration. No DB advice here, just venting and understanding.
To get back to you, what does this do for you in terms of your cutting him off dilema? I would think that this is a pretty good indication that maybe you should. Not out of spite, but out of protection. Maybe this hurt you a little more than it would have if you hadn't been intimate with H and so if this is the kind of behavior you can expect from him, it seems reasonable to me that you'd want to protect your sanity a little better. Of course, maybe the right answer is to ask for a time when he can talk to you and let him know that your getting mixed signals and could he please explain as this is making you somewhat uncomfortable with the physical part of your R. I don't know, that's a big convo check to write and you should make sure you have enough in the bank to cash it. That's something only you know.
