I was elated when you wrote you were coming to this forum, I hoped things would be great for you. I am sorry that things are the way they are. I am taking the day off tomorrow, so I will be up late tonight to chat if you wish.
I am sorry that things blew up on ya. Write me, we can comisserate.
I am sorry to not have been around for a while, thanks for trying to contact me. I know that Floyd, Will, Dark, and so many others would take great care of you. My sitch has taken a dramatic change for the worse. My wife has had not one but two affairs. I found out by doing what I promised Will I wouldn't - I spied on her. I'm damn glad I did.
I think you are correct about how these techniques work for some and not for others, although your H cannot put the blame on you by saying that your going grey hurt the R. I think I have done fairly well with dbing, and I felt pretty good about things too, but all the while my wife was seeing someone else.
I'll update my sitch when I can and fill everyone in. I don't know what blew up for you, but I hope you are ok.
