Now I've done it... again

[nephartiti]

ok, I know I'm driving everyone crazy by now. Should I ask him about the elementary school thing? NO, probably not. He would see it as an invasion of privacy and none of my business. It won't improve our situation at all.

oh, boy. Co-worker just called again. I answered to give her his new number. ok, I confess. I asked about the elementary school thing. Didn't give any info. Said he just mentioned it in passing. I said, he's on vacation. Yeah, I guess, I don't see him that much. Uh huh. ok.

I've read different things. DB says don't tell anyone what's going on. Other sources say, put pressure any way you can. Create a crisis for the lovers. Society doesn't like adulterers and this puts stress on the A, but would also make me look bad if I go flaunting the A everywhere right? Wouldn't it build his resentment towards me (if that's even possible)? Also, I have heard that this makes them feel more like a "forbidden love" like Romeo and Juliette and makes it more exciting.

I'd appreciate any feedback in this area.