Sex is obviously a big currency for them. Thing is I get the feeling that it is for some of our H's when it's happening but when it comes to all the 'trimmings' OW just haven't got it - and there in lies there problem. Often the W is better the devil the H knows as opposed to OW who is the devil he doesn't.
My H's OW actually told my H to tell me that I had won. I didn't know I was in a competition. I felt that we were all losers in the situation. I may still have my H and my family but I grieve for the exclusivity that we lost in our physical relationship and I grieve for the absolute trust I had in my husband. His pedestal crumbled to dust. He can try and rebuild it but it will never be as strong or as high. He broke something in me, my heart, my self confidence, my faith in mankind. I love my H but I HATE what he did to me and I HATE OW and how she makes me feel cruel inside with hatred for her. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
