Could it be a blessing that you don't live in the home any longer due to the memories you would have of that last year there? The apartment is temporary.
You will be in a wonderful home again. It will be wonderful because it will be all about great new memories. It will help you let go of what was not working. It will reward you for your many sacrifices.
In fact, H may have a troublesome load lifted off his shoulders in this. He may feel bad about losing the house, but with that done, maybe he can let go of some of his burdens and make room for more positives in his life. That could help lead him from his depression, in a direction he is destined to return.
